We all have one, two, maybe even three things that are deal breakers for us. That one thing that make us realize we just can’t deal with it!!! We Won’t deal it. Or we simply choose NOT to deal with it. Whatever that deal breaker is for you….how far would you go compromise that deal breaker?!
Truth is! We can gather up lists of things that we don’t like about something or someone…However when LOVE is involved things start to change. We start doing things, and accepting things that we once said we would NEVER deal with. Now that I have been through many different relationships their some things that I used to say I wouldn’t deal with that I can now tolerate. The real question is HOW MUCH CAN YOU TAKE? Especially when it’s dealing with someone you LOVE. Do you trust God that those DEAL BREAKERS will eventually fade away? Or do you walk away from someone or something that could potentially be the best thing that ever happened to you?
In my opinion sometimes we go too far with things we say we just “CAN’T DEAL WITH” from a MAN or a WOMAN. On the other hand while we spend so much time focusing on the things that we “CAN’T DEAL WITH” from other people…..have you ever stopped and looked within yourself to see if your plate is squeaky clean!?!? Are you dotting every I and crossing every T in your life to put such a demand on other people when your in a relationship?!?! Could this be the main thing that could keep us alone in the future?!?
How much can you take? What are your ultimate Deal breakers in a Relationship!! For me, I cannot tolerate a Self-Centered Man, Cheating Man, someone who doesn’t have a relationship with Christ, someone who isn’t family oriented, and who has kids…just to name a few. Now No offense to anyone who can tolerate the things that I won’t. To each its own. In saying that, If someone came in my life who wasn’t family oriented but was willing to break out of his shell to do family things then that’s someone I am willing to work with. The same with a person who doesn’t have a relationship with Christ. Whose to say that he’s not meant for me just because he doesn’t go to church..but may have a good heart or is simply an overall good person?!?! If he is really into me then he will eventually start getting into the things that’s apart of me-Which is Jesus.
The point I’m trying to make is that I’ve realized in life that everyone may not be moving to the beat that we think they should. But-does that Truly mean that God isn’t in the midst?!? Could it be that you have to help that person change?! The possibilities are endless, you just have to thoroughly think it over before you decide to end your relationship with someone just because their not where you think they should be.
*To those who have concrete evidence and know in your heart that you’re making the right decision by walking away-I Applaud you!!! To those who are on the fence about someone or something in your life. Really take the time out to access what it is you’re truly walking away from. Sometimes we decide to run because of FEAR. Fear of getting hurt again. Fear of not amounting up to what we should be for that person. Fear of failing.
To those who know that you should be with a certain someone or something-but is allowing FEAR to move you. I pray now that you release the doubts and the fears in your heart. I pray that you find peace, and accept what God has for you. God grant them understanding to know that you will never leave them nor forsake them. If you brought them to this point in their life, help them to trust that you will see them through it.
*I DARE YOU TO RESPOND!!!
HOW MUCH WILL YOU TAKE? WHAT ARE YOU DEAL BREAKERS?